We spend a lot of time talking about how attractive celebrities and athletes are. Paul Newman’s blue eyes, Antoine Griezmann’s cute baby face, Usain Bolt’s lightning speed, Audrey Hepburn’s gamine elegance…
Most of the time, though, our success is based on something we have far more control over: our emotional attractiveness.
People who are open, optimistic, outgoing, flexible, fun and generous, warm, connected and creative just have a much easier time of things. They’re more able to accomplish their goals, influence others and most of all, attract the people they’d like to be with.
These are the qualities you have to put into your presentations. And the best part is that this is a skill; something we can work on if we care enough.